on being a fat ballerina and still getting to dance with God

I havent written in my blog in over two weeks…as I sit here now, in front of my laptop, I feel like I am visiting with an old friend. I have missed writing.. and I am finding it a bit harder to connect with the right words to paint my boring computer screen with this evening. My absence from writing for these past few weeks has driven a wedge into my mind..and I must work a little harder tonight to push it away and to write normally. Let me also just be honest here..being honest is the whole reason why I write anything on here.

I am such a work in progress..I am just a sinner with a never-ending hope in my redeemer. My walk with the Lord takes such different strides at times. My journey towards my saviour goes through dry spells, and it is not only my absence from writing that has made me feel disconnected tonight but also my absence from my Lord.. I say this in repentance and also because I have to admit this – not only to God but also to the people who read the things that I write. I can’t just write about how changed my life is all the time and not also share the downfalls and the struggles that I also face. It’s not that I’ve been doing things that I know that I shouldnt do..or like i have been blatantly sinning. Its not something that I have done but what I have not done that has caused me to feel a bit distant. I havent spent time with Him lately..I have not made the time to just tell him how much I love him. I still know He is there..I still love Him..but sometimes I just forget to tell Him that and I allow other things and the burdens of this world to block him out. But Jesus loves me even when I don’t deserve it.. it is always a brief valley that carries me away because Jesus will not ever stop loving me..the glories of God will never lessen and He will never stop showing me how much I mean to him. One of the ways that He has shown me his love is what I will write about tonight. What I will write about tonight is my loveletter to God..these are the words from my soul screaming out that my God is good..that my God is real.

A while back my friend Christin invited me to go to a bible study. On the way, we were both laughing about the odds that the two of us would be going to a bible study on a friday night. Both of us once lived very dark lives..but God is definitely in the life changing business. On the way to the bible study, Christin told me that the man who would speak also sometimes prophesied over people. To say that I had doubt and was leery of this man who people called a “prophet” would be an understatement..unfortunatly the age of snazzy tv preachers has gotten to me. My thoughts about all of the falsehoods that sadly have come to be associated with christianity made me have doubt. I am so grateful that my doubt didn’t stop God from speaking to me.  God smacked me across the face..That man spoke my life to me that night. He spoke of things that he had no way of knowing..he had never met me..I had never even heard of this man. He didn’t know me but God did.

Here are some of the things he said to me that night (this is typed verbatim from an audio recording) :

You know you got a real heart for God, you always have…He really put His heart in you..when you were younger you kinda did things your own way…until about, well really 2 or 3 years ago…God started bringing change in your life…in a big way…you grew up around the things of God. you grew up around it but you rebelled…not bc you didn’t love your parents, but because you wanted to figure some things out in your own life….and you HAD to figure it out…and God wanted to tell you He is very pleased with your life…for a long time you were very upset with yourself…you didnt really understand but the Lord told me to tell you that everything you walked through before you really walked  with Him on the level you are now, He’s forgottten…its washed away and He wants me to tell you that tonight…

let me tell you the picture i saw as im siting here looking at you…i saw Him as it were…Him dancing with you… twirling you around.  you know when you were younger you used to love to dance…and I just saw Him..just  dancing with you and he just wanted to tell you how precious that was to Him

also He told me to tell you …your children…not to worry about them so much…Hes going to touch their lives and they are never going to stray from God …youve been worried about the youngest one and the Lord told me to tell you not to worry.. that the healing touch of God shall be in his life and he shall know that he is who he is and who God wants him to be and will fulfill all the days of his life and for you not to worry…. bc God is good…. all the time.”

If anyone knows me..they would be able to give testimony to the first paragraph above. How he described my past is unbelievable. He didn’t know that I was a preachers daughter and just how close to the church I was growing up until I told him later..He didnt know my past yet he described it perfectly as only God would know it. Let my previous entries be witness to the things he said..the things that I have written about when I speak of my past walk hand in hand with what he said. Big Changes? Three years ago I lost a baby..two years ago my life was blessed with my husband’s daughter, Trinitee. As I have written before, the loss of my child was a turning point in my rebellion against God and it was the responsibilities of becoming like a mother over night that made me realize that I had to change and got me back in church..it made me realize that how I act around Trinitee will play part in molding her and that I will stand before God one day and be judged on how I influenced her.

for a long time you were very upset with yourself…you didnt really understand but the Lord told me to tell you that everything you walked through before you really walked  with Him on the level you are now, Hes forgottten…its washed away and He wants me to tell you that tonight…

Please read the entry that I wrote before this one..I wrote it before any of this. I struggle with guilt. Satan uses my past to make me feel unworthy from time to time..and the few weeks up until I was told these things had been particularly bad. But God wanted me to know that.. I am forgiven. He not only forgives us..he forgets the things we’ve done. The things that we allow to keep us from feeling worthy are things that he doesn’t even remember. HE DOESNT SEE US THROUGH OUR SINS. ONCE WE HAVE BEEN RESTORED BY THE BLOOD OF JESUS HE ONLY SEES WHO WE HAVE NOW BECOME.

also He told me to tell you …your children…not to worry about them so much…Hes going to touch their lives and they are never going to stray from God …you’ve been worried about the youngest one and the Lord told me to tell you not to worry.. that the healing touch of God shall be in his life and he shall know that he is who he is and who God wants him to be and will fulfill all the days of his life and for you not to worry.

I had to include this to show just how REAL God is. All parents worry about the people who their children will one day become..however this thought had been constantly on my mind specifically and with great severity during the weeks that led up to this. My husband and I had discussed this on numerous occasions in close proximity to when this was told to me. And what he said about Rory..wow. How can I even begin? He had no clue that my youngest child was a boy. What is absolutely astonishing is the things he said concerning my son. I will not go into things more than I need to, but.. in my heart, I feel that God led my husband and I down the road that we are traveling as parents for a purpose and it was only after much research and much prayer that we came to making a very important decision regarding our son’s health. The decision we made is one that could possibly have bad consequences, but to us, putting our faith in God and trusting in His will for Rory’s life and in His ability to fearfully and wonderfully create our son is more important than the possible consequences. Be that as it may, at the time that this was spoken to me, I had been forgetting about that faith and I had been very worried about whether or not we were doing what was best for our son. My worry and second guessing had been taking a serious toll on me and God knew it..He felt my pain and struggle..but, that night, God reassured me that He had it under control. How did that man know these things? The man who spoke these things didn’t know about them.. but God did..and God is real..and God using others to speak through is real.

I saved the middle paragraph for last. If any of you are a close friend of mine then I have told you the story of how I was in ballet as a child and how I was told that for me to continue would be a waste of money because I was too fat to ever go anywhere in the ballet world. It was true..I could have never been a ballerina because I did not (and Lord knows..I still dont) have the body needed to be a ballerina.  No matter how true a statement it was.. I never thought it until someone told me to.. i never stopped loving ballet and seeing myself as a beautiful dancer in a pink tutu until someone told me to stop. it is a statement that has haunted me my whole life.. it is a statement that has played a part in molding who I am. Those words have carved a deep wound into my mind and from them I have found many things to hate about myself over the years.

let me tell you the picture i saw as im siting here looking at you…i saw Him as it were…Him dancing with you… twirling you around.  you know when you were younger you used to love to dance…and I just saw Him..just  dancing with you and he just wanted to tell you how precious that was to Him

When I heard him say the words that you just read..something seriously was healed within my spirit. The overwhelming emotion that surged through my body was unlike anything that I have ever felt. There is nothing else that someone could say to me that would minister and bring healing to me on so many levels as what that man said to me that night. Even though.. to my ballet teacher I was nothing but another problem who would never be good enough..God saw me and I was precious to Him. What the world saw as flawed and ugly..God danced with.

I pray that the Lord will use me to touch others but I am no prophet. I don’t know specific things about people..but all I can say tonight is that God does. He knows everything about you and He loves you. All the things that this hateful world has branded you with He doesn’t see..all He can see when he looks at you, is that you are his child and that he loves you.. like a perfect gentlemen, He will always be waiting for you to accept his proprosal..He will always be waiting to dance with you.

 

 

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5 thoughts on “on being a fat ballerina and still getting to dance with God

  1. Briana,
    Thank you so much for sharing that! That lifted my faith and I know it will touch many others. God is so amazing!
    Diana

  2. Oh My Briana, this was so touching. I am in tears reading this blog. God bless you and your family!! Love, Stephanie

  3. I was reading your post on ritan and came across your blog. I feel the same way you do. You are not a fat ballerina! You are cherished in His sight! He loves you so very much.
    Happy in Him

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